Facebook-Free

So today I hit the deactivate key. Aftewards I felt so liberated! I no longer have this ridiculous compulsion to see what that crazy chick from high school did last night or the need to know if the dorky guy from college's relationship status is now changed to "it's complicated."

Chris and I have both thrown the topic of a facebook-free lifestyle around.

I had the following 10 reasons:

10.) It consumes too much of my time.

9.) Facebook is an online popularity contest.

8.) All the kids are doing it... not just the cool kids

7.) People that I barely know want to be my "friend"

6.) I would rather not be stalked.

5.) Facebook is superficial.

4.) People say stuff online they would not say in person.

3.) I have other things to do with my life.

2.) It is not a health means of maintaining relationships

and drum roll for numero uno...

1.) Again, it consumes too much of my time.

In the midst of my celebration for my new facebook sobriety, Chris decided to jump on the bandwagon. And just so that I did not transfer one addiction to the next, I erased my myspace page too.

So friends, signing-off.

Monkey Wrench

So, I've always wondered what this term means. Because tonight Chris and I found ourselves saying "Well, that just throws in a monkey wrench!"

So I wikipedia -ed it and this guy named Moncy invented it back in the 1800s and sold it to his customers for $2000 (that was a TON of money back in the day) in which he turned around and invested the money into a Williamsburg mansion. In the early 1900s people would say "that throws a monkey wrench in the machinery" - so the phrase pretty much means sabotoge.

We'll.... with that researched... we have not been sabotaged. Thank the Lord! We are still well and not even close to sabotage. I will not incorrectly use that term anymore thanks to Wikipedia.

Just when Chris and I thought we had come to a decision about the grad school dilemma, Chris received a phone call from one of the professors. He's an incredibly likable guy and he has been so enthusiastic about Chris. He had fabulous news. Unfortunately, the ability for us to finance Chris' schooling has not been totally revealed yet. I'll let Chris give you the DL on everything in detail when time permits (he's at SC Phil rehearsal right now). But this one little phone call put us back into serious decision making mode. Again.

So why blog today? Because, let's face it. We're always in need of prayers, but we would certainly value them tremendously if you could say a few for Chris this week. We're 100% sure that God has this in the bag. We just need to be obedient and make the correct decisions to get us there.

So has there been a monkey wrench thrown into our plans? Ha, No.

Great Weekend & Big Deals

So Chris and I had a great weekend. Lots of productivity going on.

I had my yearly eye exam - yikers - vision is a lot worse. But I see SO much better with new contact lenses. We went shopping for new frames/lenses for the both of us. The styles out there are pretty great. I think I'm springing for these ones...

They're pretty hot. Chris is looking for something a bit metro but also something that will go with his new mane of beautiful hair. I'm really starting to like it a lot. It's pretty much hot also ;-) I'll post some pics whenever I upload the camera software on our new laptop.

Speaking of the laptop - COOL info - Netflix has this offer for $8.99. You get 1 DVD at a time, unlimited exchanges, AND here's the kicker... you can stream movies/tv shows/documentaries onto your computer UNLIMITED. Now now, this is pretty amazing. Chris and I bought an HDMI connection that we can plug into the TV and wa-laaa! We have movies instantly. The selection is really good. They don't have the really new releases but you can get pretty much anything and save the new releases to your incoming DVD. We had been doing Blockbuster online, but it was a rip off... they kept raising the prices without telling us and limiting our instore exchanges.

NEXT topic on the chopping block......... http://www.southernsavers.com/

This website is THE SHIZ. Chris and I bought $140 worth of groceries for $80. Yes friends, you read correctly. We SAVED $60 thanks to this lovely website. A friend of mine posted something like this on her blog and I thought "Pfffff... I do not have time fot that... are you kidding me?" Well, we spent maybe 30 minutes on the computer on this one site. And then went shopping. I'm going to the official coupon saving seminar next Saturday for $10. There is some jargan on the website that I really don't understand. I figure if I could understand it just a wee bit better than maybe our savings will go a whole lotta up! I'll keep you posted. I'm becoming a believer.

Last but not least, so sweet for Chris to join in on the blogging fun :-) Maybe he'll grace us with his blogging again. Hehe.

Much Love to All!

Rejection is not a bad thing - by Chris

Over the last couple weeks I have received letters from 3 different schools saying they did not want me to attend there. At least they used very flowery language to gently let me down. On the bright side, it makes my decision even easier. So, in essence, rejection is not a bad thing.

God has blessed us in so many ways. I feel that He makes Himself increasingly clear on what we should do with our lives. When life hands you lemons you make lemonade. So life is now less complicated. I'm so happy that I have my lovely wife to share this journey. Without her I couldn't have gone across the country to audition at all the schools. The two schools that I'm looking at right now seem very promising. I know that I will get a quality education, and that is all I can ask for.

Thank you to everyone who has prayed for me and encouraged me during this process. I am looking forward to the great possibilities in my music career. Life is too good for me to complain.

I'll keep you posted.

Yes, I Wok It Out.

Good Sunday Afternoon to you all.

It's a lazy rainy day here. I love these kinds of days. I've managed to stay in yoga pants all weekend and caught up on sofa snuggle time with Chris. We've watched movies to include Big Fish, Little Rascals, & Body of Lies. We did the weekly Target stroll. I've been sipping on chai latte - a fabulous sample & recipe that a dear friend of ours brought to us last weekend. It may very well become my new addiction.

I'm a little bit sad by the fact that this winter weather will be moving out. Incoming is spring, which is fine and all. But in South Carolina that means more humidity, more pollen, and more allergy/sinus/cold issues. I've been struggling with the first batch this past week/weekend. Chris is becoming a little sneezy. Thankfully it'll be gone by May.

With all this mentioned, it makes me really lean more towards Penn State and the clean mountain-ish air that it may bring. I've been googling houses/duplexes for Penn State and Univ. of Tenn just to get ideas. The possibilities are exciting. Some of the craigslist sites are already starting to post pics of places availible for Fall 2009.

That's all yet to be decided. I'm trying not to get too ahead of ourselves. We're still waiting to hear from the other schools and the financial aspects. Chris was told that the scholarship/assistantships decisions should be more clear by mid-March, so we'll know sooner than later. Everything has really come in waves, which has made decision making easy. We deal with one issue and on to the next challenge.

We'll be making my first major student loan repayment this month and although we're sqeaking a little; the money is there and our budget is starting to look more hopeful. I have been worried and sometimes frantic at moments because it is so much - literally like a mortgage. Chris is my God send. He has managed our finances so well. I am so proud of him. I type about this because, at times, I don't think to incoporate God in our financial plans. I sometimes think that it's not His department and limit Him to issues of the heart and soul. But Chris and I are living proof that God knows the desires of our hearts. We're proof that if we follow God's individualized purpose then He will see it through and ultimately make it happen. *Stepping off the soap box*

Now......... Let's talk WOK! I was first introduced to serious Wok cooking by my cousin & his wife while staying a week with them for a clinical rotation at Duke. So, Chris & I bought a Wok at IKEA last year. We didn't bring it out until last night and boy have we been missing out! We made ginger & sesame chicken with veggies and teriyaki beef with broccoli. Talk about some yummy goodness. Folks, I encourage you to....

Becky is Crazy. Chris has High Cholesterol. But All is Well.

So, after a very very long time, Chris and I decided to get on the boat and find a primary care provider. We're going to a "residence run" clinic. This means, the doctor's are real doctors, they've graduated, the have MD at the end of their name, but they are still under the eye of an attending (old doctor that knows it all). Pretty good experience. Our doctor was very young, hip, quick, and thorough without all the silly formalities of some doctor's office.



We had the yearly blood work done. It was a given that my thyroid would come back wacky due to my non-compliance with medication. It's a long story, but ultimately, I normally CANNOT rely on taking pills... my memory is TERRIBLE... which is a symptom of hypothyroid. So you can see the vicious cycle. BUT.... after the labwork came back... my TSH level was 15 (FIFTEEN)... which in normal people terms this means its way too high. No wonder why I feel tired, achy, forgetful (I leave my wallet in the front seat of the car in plain site at least 2 x a week), cranky, and just flat out crazy. So my new goal.... take my meds, be a normal person! Plain and simple. Thank God for levothroid. :-)



Now.... Chris has had history of high cholesterol which is kinda scary at such a young age. And you better believe it, the man had elevated labwork. It was not too terrible, but hopefully something we can manage through diet - which will be VERY difficult for Chris if you know him just a little bit. He is a double cheese burger value meal kind of guy with a McChicken and extra double cheeseburger. Yeh, he's still skinny, but his arteries are feeling it.



But ya know what, with all of that said, we're doing really well. We were able to spend some much needed time with some great friends the other day - the couple that did out premarital counseling. I think I have a part-time home health job lined up (still crossing fingers). And Chris is on his road to pursuing his dreams. So here's to eating more whole grains and remembering to taking sanity in the form of a pill!



P.S. - Keep my bro and sister-in-law in your prayers. He should be getting off a plane from Iraq anytime soon! Wahoo!

Happy Hump Day!

Gosh, so happy its Wednesday (Really Thursday now that I'm finally going to post this thing). I am a very spoiled girl. What with a fantastic celebration weekend and Chris cooking a yummy dinner for me Monday, I just wasn't too ready to get back to work. But, all in all, its been a good week!

Soooo... Chris had his audition at USC on Saturday. He says it went well. The jury members were all old professors and one of them even said "De ja vu!" So yay Chris for getting through his final grad school audition :-) We'll be having to weight the options here soon. Still waiting to hear back from some other schools and then how much $$ will be involved. We have interpretted the smoothness of this process as God's confirmation.

Now. Let's talk Cheesecake Factory. You must have the Chocolate Pistachio Cheesecake. It was delicious. The Chicken Madeira was EVEN better. Let's not forget the made to eat gaucamole that Chris and I couldn't get enough of.

Then... IKEA was pretty much out of control. The parking lot was completely fully. Chris and I parked a good bit away. It was really cold and very rainy, but what a great place to be when you can't be outdoors!

We managed to buy a few really fun items for the house without breaking the bank. I wish I had more time to post pictures of things, but here is the breakbox we got. And it was only $19.99. I'd say that's a good deal :-)